Comments on: Contraceptive Resposibility – Who’s is it Anyways? #FairSexFairSay

By: Vinay Nagaraju

Vinay Nagaraju — Sun, 13 Mar 2016 19:50:20 +0000

A very interesting perspective, to be honest I had never really thought in that angle. I mean it is so easy to take sensitivity for granted and yet these are the things that are glaring in front of us. The post asks a very important and valuable question.. Kudos to the research that is going on, I really hope there will be more education on it soon :)

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By: Geets

Geets — Sun, 13 Mar 2016 07:34:50 +0000

What a true story you narrated and men doing it all don’t even realize that it is their responsibility as well.. and sub consciously put the entire thing on women! Men’s contraceptive pill should change lot of things in the society and it’s high time it should be introduced!

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By: Parul Thakur

Parul Thakur — Sat, 12 Mar 2016 19:56:33 +0000

You have brought out a very valid concern clouding our society. Birth control is the responsibility of both sexes and not just the woman. The GoI initiatives had those commercials which spoken of mardangi alive after vasectomy but the apprehensions remain. I’m glad you picked this topic up. Great post!

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By: Me Otherwise

Me Otherwise — Sat, 12 Mar 2016 08:07:19 +0000

No problem… there were honest questions and i had to give u honest answers. Cheers!

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By: parwatisingari

parwatisingari — Sat, 12 Mar 2016 07:43:12 +0000

definitely, when I asked you this it is from place of being there, my relationship with my spouse went tatters because I went by so many social presumption, it took us nearly two years to bring the conversations back. Since then I have been working with lost conversations. :) Thank you for not ridiculing my queries.

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By: Me Otherwise

Me Otherwise — Sat, 12 Mar 2016 06:02:42 +0000

There’s a valid point u hav raised that I have not actually delved into much in my post. Women are equally a party to the thought process that exists about men shouldering the contraceptive responsibility. Both sangeetha and Rashmi don’t seem to have had a conservation in adequacy with their spouses.. Reasons their own….The problem is in our thought processes and it looms socially at large, both among men and women. And yes they do bother me.. Hence 1) the post was up… 2) get the next gen to think…hoping that when my kids produce their kids they’d pass on a more positive thought process… Hope I have answered ur queries to satisfaction Parvati. If there’s anything I could do to help u in your thesis work, please feel free to get in touch.

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By: THE RED HANDED BLOG

THE RED HANDED BLOG — Sat, 12 Mar 2016 04:52:04 +0000

No protection because it doesn’t give pleasure enough. No sterilisation because it takes away the feeling of being a mard.
And all those stupidity goes on because women succumb.
You wrote something that people normally shy away from even acknowledging.

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By: parwatisingari

parwatisingari — Sat, 12 Mar 2016 04:47:00 +0000

well written, but out of curiosity, did Rashmi even broach the subject with Ajay? sometimes it is just about a conversation. Still important do these women think their men will be lesser men post surgery? I am not questioning you, but I am genuinely curious, since I am looking at the lost conversations, for my thesis work and this is something I did not think about.
Again this is vulgar curiosity, do these ideologies bother you? so how do you plan to deal with it?
Please you do not have to answer these when I read the post I felt like I was in a direct conversation with you.

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By: Damyanti Biswas

Damyanti Biswas — Sat, 12 Mar 2016 00:47:12 +0000

Very well-written. Contraception should be the concern of both genders.

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