Comments on: “Not” in the Name of Dowry http://meotherwise.com/2015/07/29/not-in-the-name-of-dowry/ Sat, 21 May 2016 09:06:08 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ By: Must You Only Empower Yourself? | Me Otherwise http://meotherwise.com/2015/07/29/not-in-the-name-of-dowry/comment-page-1/#comment-999 Fri, 08 Jan 2016 04:05:53 +0000 http://meotherwise.com/?p=1030#comment-999 […] “Not” in the Name of Dowry […]

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By: Five Reasons Why Divorce is Still a Taboo | Me Otherwise http://meotherwise.com/2015/07/29/not-in-the-name-of-dowry/comment-page-1/#comment-666 Wed, 09 Sep 2015 06:31:23 +0000 http://meotherwise.com/?p=1030#comment-666 […] Not in the name of Dowry […]

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By: Kalpana solsi http://meotherwise.com/2015/07/29/not-in-the-name-of-dowry/comment-page-1/#comment-540 Fri, 31 Jul 2015 17:45:15 +0000 http://meotherwise.com/?p=1030#comment-540 In modern times dowry has changed its form but the intrinsic remains the same- the bride’s father has to shell out in many other forms. Shame.

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By: the bespectacled mother http://meotherwise.com/2015/07/29/not-in-the-name-of-dowry/comment-page-1/#comment-535 Thu, 30 Jul 2015 06:17:31 +0000 http://meotherwise.com/?p=1030#comment-535 I can bet Shruti will have a peaceful married life ahead with her in-laws since her father spent all or most of his retirement money on her wedding just to see her happy.
I dont know how it is in South India but in North Inida, during the first year of marriage, the bride’s father has to send gifts, expensive clothes and sweets for the groom and his family on every festival which may be 4-5 in number. And when a child (read a baby boy) is born, the gifted items comprise of valuables, clothes etc similar to what was done in the wedding.
Dowry involved in weddings is just a narrow concept.

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By: Me Otherwise http://meotherwise.com/2015/07/29/not-in-the-name-of-dowry/comment-page-1/#comment-534 Thu, 30 Jul 2015 05:07:45 +0000 http://meotherwise.com/?p=1030#comment-534 Rightly said..whats important is the couples life together

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By: Me Otherwise http://meotherwise.com/2015/07/29/not-in-the-name-of-dowry/comment-page-1/#comment-533 Thu, 30 Jul 2015 05:07:02 +0000 http://meotherwise.com/?p=1030#comment-533 True.. it seems to be such a waste of resources at times!!!

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By: parwatisingari http://meotherwise.com/2015/07/29/not-in-the-name-of-dowry/comment-page-1/#comment-532 Thu, 30 Jul 2015 01:03:35 +0000 http://meotherwise.com/?p=1030#comment-532 sadly the Karan Johar’s four day wedding have become the prototype for Indian wedding. Last year when my nephew got married, both my sister-in-law’s family and the bride’s family wanted a simple arya samaj wedding or a register wedding but it was the bride and the groom who wanted an elaborate affair their friends got an even manager from Bangalore and a respectable quiet southern wedding turned into a Punjabi debacle!

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By: francenestanley http://meotherwise.com/2015/07/29/not-in-the-name-of-dowry/comment-page-1/#comment-531 Wed, 29 Jul 2015 09:07:31 +0000 http://meotherwise.com/?p=1030#comment-531 You’ve opened my eyes to the traditions still practiced in India regarding weddings. I know it’s tradition over there, but I never had a lavish wedding. I don’t really think it makes any difference to the couple’s long life together.

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